ON LOVE AND LETTING GO

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so
                         much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again.  But
                         sometimes, a love lost is a love gone forever.  No amount of hope can
                        bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death.  Set
                    yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly.  Remember, it may rain
                           for 40 days and 40 nights, but still it will not rain forever.  One day, the

pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can
find rest.  One of these is where you will build your nest and start over
again. It’s never too late. You may find love and lose it but,,,
 
WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER DIE WITH IT.

 
LIFE DOESN’T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN.
THERE’S NO FUTURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES
AND SELFISHNESS. 
 
It’s true, there is life in love.  But, there can
still be life even after losing love.  If you leave the past behind and let
yourheart heal, then you give yourself the chance to find yourself
again.  The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning,
but in its consistency.  Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based
on a healthy balance of mind and heart.  Let us always remember
that…
 
HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE.
 
  There comes a time
in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just
find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.  This
feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts and actions.  The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this
person feels nothing more for us than friendship.  We start our
desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end, our efforts are
still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. 
 
YOU DON’T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE
VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF.
 YOU WOULD BE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT DEDICATION AND
LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING.

it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. 
 
IF YOU LOSE LOVE, IT DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE.
  CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT
AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. 
LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU. 
 
And when it does, pray that it may be the
love that will stay and last a lifetime.  A woman on the rebound could
easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that
she finally stumbled upon the right man…when what she just found is only
someone to cover up for the love she lost.  A man who makes a promise
with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them.

BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR
SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL.
 
 
Love makes us see the things through rose-colored glasses. 
Most of the time, we fail to recognize the danger sign that light up along our way. 
 This feeling you have nurtured for so long isn’t healthy anymore. 
You must realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your sanity. 
There is always a time to think and stop.  A time to be sensible and not to allow our
hearts to rule over our heads. 
 
YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY NOT IN THE ARMS
OF A MAN/WOMAN WHO KEEPS YOU WAITING
BUT IN THE ARMS OF SOMEONE WHO WILL TAKE
YOU NOW AND LOVE YOU FOREVER. 
 
If loving a person who is attached to someone else is a crime,
then, maybe, many of us would have been jailed long
before we realize what its consequences could have been. 
Loving someone is never a sin…
it’s what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong.
The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. 
 
DON’T THINK ONLY OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR REAL LOVE
DOESN’T HAVE A PLACE FOR SELFISH PEOPLE.
 
   When there is love, there is always sacrifice. 
When we love someone, we never easily give up on that person. 
Even if we get hurt badly,
we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive.

we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered.
 
DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO
NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT.
OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF
 THE CHANCE TO FIND THE ONE WHO
WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. 
 
Just like anything else, our
love grows weak and dies, if not taken cared of. 
It can keep up with pain only to a certain extent. 
Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies. 
 
 GOD WAKES US IN THE MIDST OF A STORM TO TEACH US A LESSON.
  HE TAKES AWAY PEOPLE WE LOVE SO WE CAN LEARN TO VALUE LOVE ITSELF.
HE MAKES US CRY SO HARD SO WE CAN SEE CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES.  HE MAKES US BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THAT THERE
IS NO GENUINE HAPPINESS IF
WE THINK ONLY OF OUR OWN NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.

The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on.
Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be.
God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better
persons.  He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives,
and only if we put our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears
and happiness in our sorrows. In many failed relationships, separation comes
as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as
difficult as letting go. Sometimes, our choice to hold on is beyond the control of
circumstances.  Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us.

 There is always a chance for those who try.  

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN EXPRESSING
OUR FEELINGS TO SOMEONE WE LOVE, 
BUT WE MUST ALWAYS BE SENSITIVE TO THE SIGNALS THAT TELL US WHEN TO RATIONALIZE AND BE SENSIBLE. 
 
There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn’t be
as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else.
There are many times when we love but don’t get love in return. 
 
THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THE SIGN AHEAD SAYS STOP BUT WE STILL STUBBORNLY HEAD ON. 
 
We would say our love is unconditional…but if it really is, then we
should never feel bad.  But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour?  
Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the
people we care about. 
 
BEING IN LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING WE COULD
EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE FEELING BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLE BEING, THEN WE
HAVE TO STOP AND LET OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR ACTIONS.
ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR FATE AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR
FAILURES CAN WE TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE.  WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND
CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT WILL NEVER BE…

LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE
SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME. 

It is a resolution we make to ourselves.  Acceptance is the key to a new
beginning and time is the healer of all wounds.  Even if the storm casts
its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and
loneliest moments. There is always hope for those who believe. 

Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness are doomed from the very beginning.

Loving too much doesn’t hurt…it is when we expect this love to be
reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things
we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected,

IT’S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER,

Don’t let your heart run your life.  Be sensible and let your mind speak
for itself.  Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today,

You cannot be a redeemer all your life.  The best way to weigh a
relationship is through the test of fire.  You cannot be a loser with
your mistake forever.  We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders
are not meant to bury us deep in misery, but to teach us the valued
lessons of life.  Loving is always a learning process… with love we learn how to
CARE AND SACRIFICE.  We learn to SHARE AND REACH OUT.  We learn to be
UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN.  Then, when everything doesn’t end well, we
learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt.
But learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get
back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that

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