Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so
much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But
sometimes, a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can
bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set
yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain
for 40 days and 40 nights, but still it will not rain forever. One day, the
find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over
again. It’s never too late. You may find love and lose it but,,,
still be life even after losing love. If you leave the past behind and let
yourheart heal, then you give yourself the chance to find yourself
again. The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning,
but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based
on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember
in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just
find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This
feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this
person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our
desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end, our efforts are
still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF.
AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH.
love that will stay and last a lifetime. A woman on the rebound could
easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that
she finally stumbled upon the right man…when what she just found is only
someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes a promise
with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them.
SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL.
hearts to rule over our heads.
OF A MAN/WOMAN WHO KEEPS YOU WAITING
YOU NOW AND LOVE YOU FOREVER.
before we realize what its consequences could have been.
The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin.
OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF
WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE.
love grows weak and dies, if not taken cared of.
WE THINK ONLY OF OUR OWN NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.
Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be.
persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives,
and only if we put our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears
and happiness in our sorrows. In many failed relationships, separation comes
as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as
difficult as letting go. Sometimes, our choice to hold on is beyond the control of
circumstances. Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us.
as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else.
There are many times when we love but don’t get love in return.
should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour?
Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the
people we care about.
EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE FEELING BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLE BEING, THEN WE
HAVE TO STOP AND LET OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR ACTIONS.
ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR FATE AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR
FAILURES CAN WE TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE. WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND
CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT WILL NEVER BE…
LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE
SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME.
It is a resolution we make to ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new
beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts
its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and
loneliest moments. There is always hope for those who believe.
Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness are doomed from the very beginning.
Loving too much doesn’t hurt…it is when we expect this love to be
reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things
we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected,
IT’S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER,
Don’t let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak
for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today,
You cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a
relationship is through the test of fire. You cannot be a loser with
your mistake forever. We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders
are not meant to bury us deep in misery, but to teach us the valued
lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process… with love we learn how to
CARE AND SACRIFICE. We learn to SHARE AND REACH OUT. We learn to be
UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. Then, when everything doesn’t end well, we
learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt.
But learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get
back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that